Definition: Any dust-coated pastel candy fossilized into a sedimentary layer at the bottom of your grandma’s decorative dish. Requires chiseling with improvised tools (car keys, butter knives) to harvest a single chalky lump.

The reward for this archaeological effort is a flavor profile best described as “vile disappointment” — like chewing floral-scented plaster that instantly dehydrates your soul. Universally recognized by generations as the ultimate test of candy-related trust issues.

Example:

Visiting Grandma, I spotted pastel lumps in her crystal dish; using a house key, I chiseled out a chalky piece that tasted like despair.

My soul withered after chewing the floral plaster-like candy pried from Grandma’s dish, confirming lifelong candy trust issues with that vile disappointment.

Definition: Refers to any disastrous candy encounter where the experience is so memorably vile, sticky, or structurally frustrating that it leaves permanent psychological scars. Named after those decorative, fused-together satin candies requiring tools to pry apart, only to reward effort with a flavor resembling perfume and disappointment.

This syndrome encompasses candies tasting like gasoline, vomit, or soap, possessing impossible textures, or involving deceptive packaging promising joy (“Orange Happy Bang”) but delivering betrayal. The hallmark is an unforgettable, visceral negative reaction creating lifelong candy trust issues.

Example:

Trying to pry apart those beautiful satin candies only to get a mouthful of perfumed wax gave me full-blown Satin Candy Syndrome; I avoid hard candy now.

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The “Orange Happy Bang” tasted like gasoline, triggering such a visceral negative reaction that it created permanent candy trust issues and I swore off novelty sweets.

Definition: The baseline package of emotional and physical necessities required to prevent total human meltdown in modern society. Not luxury items, but the absolute bare-minimum comforts that keep you from screaming into a pillow or rage-quitting adulthood.

Typically includes: one (1) financial cushion against imploding utilities, eight (8) uninterrupted hours of REM sleep, a single genuine hug, and access to quiet spaces devoid of existential dread. Often requested sarcastically when life feels like a tire fire.

Example:

After three nights of insomnia and a maxed-out credit card, she desperately needed some uninterrupted sleep and a quiet space to avoid a breakdown.

He felt the crushing weight lift slightly after a genuine hug from his partner, though the lack of any financial cushion kept the dread simmering.

Definition: That quick, desperately needed emotional/mental patch-job you grab when life’s crumbling. Think a surprise nap, impulsive junk food, retail therapy under $20, or a genuinely good hug – anything serving as instant, shallow relief for your frayed sanity.

It ain’t a structural repair or a real solution (like therapy or paying off debt), but it’s the duct tape holding your psyche together right now. Not a cure, but damn if it doesn’t make the cracks less noticeable for a sweary minute.

Example:

After the disastrous meeting, she grabbed a huge slice of cake from the breakroom; the sugary instant relief was pure shallow comfort.

He scrolled mindlessly for an hour, a cheap duct tape psyche fix providing a temporary reprieve before tackling the overdue project.

Definition: The cumulative, low-grade rage generated by life’s tiniest obstructions and inefficiencies. It’s the actual physics of frustration: when slow-walking sidewalk blockades, rogue hairs invading your sandwich mid-bite, or a buffering stream create resistance against your basic desire to just exist smoothly.

This isn’t major anger, but the corrosive drip of micro-annoyances. It’s the visceral urge to rage-quit a shoelace you tripped on or dramatically side-eye the universe because the wind, a doorframe, and your own charging cable conspired to mildly inconvenience you all at once. Pure, petty, kinetic irritation.

Example:

Fighting tangled earbuds while dodging slow walkers, then spilling coffee on his shirt, the corrosive drip of micro-annoyances ignited his cumulative rage.

Stubbing her toe, dropping her keys, and then the zipper jamming – the physics of frustration turned minor setbacks into pure kinetic irritation.

Definition: That specific, skin-crawling rage when minor physical inconveniences and oblivious human behavior collide, turning your chill into a feral urge to yeet objects or shriek into the void. It’s the slow-motion sidewalk blockade, the wind plastering your hair into lunch, or the cable guy’s 12-hour purgatory window – all converging into one primal need to violently kick a stray shoe.

This fury isn’t directed at people, just the universe’s petty inefficiency. It’s the hair in your mouth, the looping video ad, and the one-upper’s monologue merging into a single, soul-shriveling moment where you white-knuckle your phone instead of frisbeeing it into traffic. Pure, undiluted gritfray.

Example:

Stuck behind people obliviously blocking the entire grocery aisle while wrestling a sticky cart wheel, I felt pure gritfray bubble up, white-knuckling the handle.

The wind plastered wet hair across my face just as my phone died mid-navigation, igniting a skin-crawling rage at the universe’s petty inefficiency.

Definition: The obnoxious habit of rewriting traumatic events with your own imaginary heroics, especially when criticizing someone’s real-life reaction to violence or crisis. Commonly deployed by keyboard warriors who swear they’d “throw hands on sight” despite never facing genuine threat or understanding the science of freeze responses.

It ignores how trauma hijacks logic, leaving actual victims paralyzed or compliant. Yet armchair Rambos confidently dissect others’ survival instincts over lukewarm coffee, mistaking their delulu fanfic for useful commentary. Peak cringe.

Example:

After hearing about the bank teller complying with robbers, Mark scoffed online, insisting he’d “tackle the gunman instantly,” ignoring her paralyzing freeze response.

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Watching news of the subway attack, Dave loudly proclaimed he’d “knock that guy out cold,” his delulu fanfic ignoring the science of trauma-induced compliance.

Definition: The phenomenon where someone confidently declares the hyper-violent, flawlessly executed ass-kicking they would have delivered in a traumatic situation they only heard about online. Rooted in zero actual experience but fueled by internet bravado and action-movie fantasies.

It highlights the absurd gap between imagined heroics and the complex freeze/flight/fawn responses actual trauma triggers. These digital locker-room boasts often shame survivors by implying their real reaction was weak or wrong, while the commenter remains safely anonymous. Actual trauma survivors just roll their eyes.

Example:

After reading about a subway mugging, a commenter declared he’d have disarmed both attackers instantly with “brutal efficiency” before they blinked.

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A survivor of an armed robbery just sighed reading online claims that anyone freezing was “weak,” knowing the paralyzing terror they actually felt.

Definition: The visceral moment when chronic depression begins to lift, marked by a sudden sense of lightness and clarity. It hits like flipping on a light in a pitch-black room—colors sharpen, strangers’ smiles feel genuine, and joy flickers unexpectedly after months or years of incremental healing through therapy, routine, or purged toxicity.

This isn’t “winning” but proof your grind—exercise, job switches, or ditching trauma bonds—is working. Named for that raw, sun-on-skin relief when you realize the fog has thinned enough to breathe again.

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Example:

Walking to work, the grey sky suddenly looked intensely blue, and a stranger’s nod felt like real warmth, shocking her after years of numbness.

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He paused mid-run, breathing deep; the sunlight felt warm, not harsh, a profound sun-on-skin relief confirming the therapy and hard choices were finally paying off.

Definition: The exact moment your depressive fog lifts like a punctured stormcloud, leaving you blinking in sudden emotional daylight. Feels like a champagne cork popping in your chest cavity – that fizzy, unexpected jolt where colors sharpen and strangers’ smiles stop feeling like abstract art.

Usually triggered by stupidly simple stuff: tasting coffee properly after years of sludge, or realizing your dog’s wagging tail just short-circuited your despair. Not victory – just your soul’s mic-drop reminder that numbness isn’t permanent.

Example:

Sunlight hit the dusty window and birdsong pierced the quiet; the depressive fog lifted abruptly, leaving him blinking in sudden, startling emotional daylight.

She felt the absurd fizzy pop inside, like a champagne cork, watching her dog’s pure joy; colors sharpened and the crushing weight vanished momentarily.