Definition: That unicorn-tier relationship superpower where someone articulates their messy feelings with crystal clarity, actively listens without getting butthurt, and can gracefully concede a point without melting down. It’s accountability meets zero yelling – your needs land softly, debates stay productive, and apologies feel genuine, not weaponized.
This fluency also means they sniff out emotional illiteracy from a mile away. They won’t waste energy decoding your cryptic bullshit or playing therapist; they’ll peace out before your unresolved daddy issues become their problem. Swoon-worthy self-awareness, not games.
Example:
When I explained my frustration about the canceled trip, she listened intently, acknowledged her oversight, and apologized sincerely without excuses.
He instantly recognized my vague complaints as passive-aggression, stated he needed direct communication, and calmly ended the call.